Tess Waxman

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Birth & Postpartum Doula
Berkeley, California
5.0
About me

Hi! My name is Tess (she/her). I am a queer doula based in Berkeley, California committed to supporting individuals and families through all reproductive life events. As a doula, I strive to provide nonjudgmental, inclusive care that honors and respects the unique needs and experiences of each individual. My values of anti-capitalism, mutual aid, and community care inform my approach to doula work, and I prioritize building relationships of trust and collaboration with my clients. My background has led me to appreciate both the medical and the natural. I provide my clients with the latest evidence and science-backed explanations while holding space for our bodies to work their magic. I love to share the knowledge I’ve gained through my years as a birth and child development nerd!

Education

Bachelor of Science in Biology (2022)

Bachelor of Arts in Public Health & Health Equity (2022)

Certification and training

Full Spectrum Doula Training, Cornerstone (2020)

Memberships and affiliations

Doulas of the East Bay

Redwood Doulas

Credentials
BA BS CD
Specialties
Abortion Doula Care Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) Babywearing Birth and Lactation Birth Doula Birth Support Breastfeeding Support Evidence-Based Care Exclusive Pumping/Bottle Feeding Home Birth Hypnobirthing Method Infant Care Labor Doula LGBTQ+ Maternal Fetal Positioning Natural Birth Newborn Care Overnight Newborn Care Parenting Support Postpartum Doula Care Premature Infants Sibling Preparation Support during Labor, Birth, and Postpartum Toddlers Water birth
Languages

English

Accepted insurances
Medi-Cal
Service introduction

I offer perinatal and parenting support that centers each family's unique needs and values. I understand that building and raising a family looks different for everyone, so I collaborate with my clients to create a care plan that is aligned with their values. My support combines evidence-based knowledge with community wisdom, is flexible and adaptable, and will always uplift your personal choices. I feel honored to be invited into birth and postpartum spaces and I truly love connecting with and supporting parents in my community. Please reach out to book a free consultation!

Packages
Labor & Birth Doula Support
My labor and birth doula support package includes: - 3 in-person prenatal visits, 90+ minutes each - unlimited text and phone call support throughout pregnancy and postpartum - a host of evidence-based resources and my lending library - assistance in creating a birth guide and preparing for labor - on-call availability from 37 to 42+ weeks - a backup doula, whom you can meet over video call - in-person labor, birth, and immediate postpartum support - 1 postpartum visit, 60+ minutes
$2,500.00
USD Flat rate
Postpartum Doula Support
The fourth trimester is a crucial time for healing and bonding with your newborn. I’m here to take care of you, so you can care for your baby. Let me clean the kitchen while you take a shower and a nap, or show you how to expertly swaddle and soothe. I also offer support for birth processing and postpartum’s many emotions. My postpartum services include: - newborn care and education - lactation and feeding support - healing recommendations - emotional support - routine creation - meal prep - laundry and dishes - grocery shopping and errands - care for older siblings - community referrals
$55.00
USD Per hour
Parenting Support
Parenting is hard work! Are you feeling like you need some expert guidance? I have over a decade of childcare experience and would love to help make your life more peaceful. Let me model my gentle but firm caregiving techniques, teach you the basics of baby-led weaning, spend time with a new older sibling, or assist you in organizing your home to promote independence. As a previous infant and toddler preschool teacher, daycare provider, and nanny, I offer these services to families with children aged 0-4 years old: - conscious parenting (with RIE and Montessori philosophies) - baby-led weaning - new sibling - creating a Montessori home
$65.00
USD Per hour
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Ratings and reviews
Average
5.0
# of Reviews
2
5.0

Hiring Tess as our doula was the single greatest decision we made for our pregnancy. When we first found out we were pregnant, we knew we wanted to hire a doula. We had previously experienced trauma due to miscarriages and wanted this pregnancy to be as positive an experience as possible. Tess was truly a blessing to us and we were so grateful to have her as our doula. When we first met Tess, the thing that really stood out to us was her knowledge. Leading up to our due date, Tess met with us a couple of times to discuss and help formulate our birth plan. Tess was extremely knowledgeable about everything from pain medication to hypnobirthing. Tess also led us in activities to help prepare for our big day including body positioning to help with induction and guided meditations to help with pain during contractions. During labor, Tess moved me into the perfect positions to help ease the pain. I truly believe Tess is one of the most knowledgeable doula's available and one that truly helped us prepare for our birth. Another thing that really stood out to us about Tess was her care and compassion. Even though we prepared all that we could for our labor, we still ran into problems along the way. Our baby's heart rate dropped during labor, which triggered chaos as a dozen nurses and OBs ran into our room to help save our baby. Although Tess couldn't do anything from a medical standpoint, she provided much needed reassurance and comfort at an extremely vulnerable time. We could have easily become overwhelmed and succumbed to the chaos, but Tess was by our side as long as she could to be our rock. We ended up having an emergency C-section, which went as well as we could have ever hoped and provided us with the healthy birth of our newborn baby. Thanks to Tess, we were very calm and collected during this chaotic time. Lastly, we think Tess is an amazing doula because she goes above and beyond her duty to help her families. After we brought our newborn home from the hospital, Tess made a visit to help us transition to home life with our newborn. In addition to being knowledgeable about pregnancy and delivery, Tess is extremely knowledgeable and experienced in caring for newborns. She taught us more tricks and tips than any Pediatrician or Nurse ever taught us. Tess also helped us weeks after our last visit. We had questions about caring for our newborn including referrals to other service providers, and as always, Tess delivered. Tess was truly a blessing to our family. She is much more than a doula. Her blend of knowledge, compassion, and dedication to her families goes above and beyond anything that we could have hoped for when we first considered her as our doula. We truly believe Tess is the greatest doula in the world and we have our happy and healthy baby to prove it!

- C C.

5.0

Tess was invaluable to us and helped us prepare for the birth of our child and navigate a very long labor when the time came. She helped us understand labor and post labor from both a medical and process perspective— walking us through the potential scenarios and our options. From helping communicate and advocate for our personal birth preferences to the medical team to just being a comforting presence and coaching us through the birth, we can't imagine how much harder it would have been without Tess by our side. We can't recommend her enough!

- Pallav K.

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