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Hi, I’m Hayden! A birth doula and birth photographer serving families in Oklahoma. I’m a homebody at heart, a wife and mom drawn to honest connection, slow nights with a good book and traveling with friends and family when I’m not on call. With a background in psychology and hands-on experience in caregiving roles, I bring a calming presence, grounded support, and respect for each family’s unique birth story.
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As a doula, I’ll be your advocate, educator, and steady support during your birth. I’ll listen to your wishes and concerns, help you navigate your options with evidence-based information, and encourage you to make informed decisions that feel right for you! You can count on me to provide continuous physical, emotional, and informational support from early labor through delivery and into the postpartum period. I’m committed to creating a calm and nurturing environment where you feel safe, respected, and confident.
Hayden was absolutely incredible! We hired her as a doula and birth photographer for the birth of our daughter and we are so glad we did! As a first time mom planning a physiologic birth at home, I was so grateful for Hayden’s dept of knowledge, lightning speed responsiveness, calm demeanor under pressure, and her constant encouragement. I will cherish the photos that she took forever! Would highly recommend!
— Rachel M.
Hayden was an incredible resource for me before, during, and after the birth of my first child. At two weeks overdue I went in to be induced, but we found out baby was so big he just couldn't descend appropriately which led ultimately at 29hrs of mostly natural labor to a c-section. Hayden was a calming presence that never left my side through it all, and her experience (including personal) allowed me to ask questions about details and fears I had that was invaluable. We tried every position out there in the process of trying to get baby to descend, and Hayden knew them all and helped me through it - without her I would've felt rushed or pushed into a c-section (which I was trying to avoid) but having done all the things with her I knew when it was time I had peace that we had tried everything we could. If you want a calm, encouraging, knowledgeable resource (and friend) during your labor and delivery look no further!
— Jessica D.
Hayden was amazing throughout everything. She was supportive & responsive during pregnancy. She provided so much insight & knowledge when I asked questions. During labor, she was fantastic. She helped me achieve my goal of an unmedicated birth & used a variety of strategies to get us to meeting the baby. I will definitely be contacting her in the future if we have more kids! & I highly recommend her to anyone looking for a doula.
— Becca L.
I used Hayden as both my doula and birth photographer and have only positive things to say about my experience with her! I learned a lot from the times I met with her during pregnancy that prepared me for labor and birth and encouraged me to think through what I preferred for both myself and baby. She was a constant support during labor and birth and helped my husband and myself understand and navigate the process. Meeting with her postpartum also helped me process the experience. I would absolutely hire her for the birth photography again; I will always cherish those first photo’s of my baby’s life outside the womb. 10/10 would recommend Hayden!
— Kali M.
I cannot speak highly enough of Hayden and my experience with her as a doula. She was our biggest asset from our first meeting until our postpartum check in. She provided answers and helpful resources for all of my questions, concerns and hopes for my labor experience. While our labor & delivery did not end up following the ‘plan’ I had expected due to unforeseen complications with our baby boy, Hayden’s presence, expertise & advocacy played a vital role in the positive outcome of our baby’s healthy & safe delivery. I would recommend her to any and every woman looking for support in their birthing experience. Hayden’s doula services are the best investment you can make for yourself, your partner and your baby!
— Mychaela P.
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Hayden is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
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