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I had a miscarriage and they dont know when im due they say baby is .5lbs underweight and trying to stress me out with stillborn or induction i just want a calm birth ive had 3 miscarriages. I've always been small 89-96lbs im 110 n suppose to be 35weeks by thiwr calculations but they have my last menstrual period as feb 15th which is false ive not had one since nov last yr lost baby in jan-feb. So we dnt no for sure when i became pregnant again. Going for check up at ut high risk friday but my bloodwork n urine has been fine this entire time.. I was born by c section 2.5lbs 3 mnths early and mom had 3 kids the older 2 were 5 to 7lbs. Just looking to c other alternatives bcus I been crying all day since he forced me to go to a new high risk dr at 35weeks. Im gaining 2lbs a week so far I have lupus but its been in remission for 3yrs bloodwork has been on point. They are stressing me out over induction when they don't even know when I Conceived they r guessing. I don't want a induction everything has been fine until this week he has only gained half a lb- again guessing by ultrasound which i know can be off. Please let me know if doula would b worth the peace of mind i want a water birth 😩 I don't want to b in the hospital or induction due to him being due best Thanksgiving if they r right. Me n baby dad think it's 2 weeks off but they r stuck on nov 22 nwon't listen. I have a fibroid , history of pcos endo but no flares since i got preg. I just want to know my choices before I'm forced for something against my will

I want someone who has experience and can help guide me through my first pregnancy and help answer a lot of the questions and concerns I may have. Also want someone who is well educated in women's health pertaining to African American women.