I have been so lucky to hire Melissa twice as a doula now and I could not recommend her services enough. She is a wonderful advocate for mothers and truly listened to what I needed. She gave me the space to think about what my needs might be and I don’t think I would have known without her there to ask those questions. She helped prep our whole family in a way where I felt so well cared for. For both of the births Melissa was there for, as soon as she walked in I felt a huge sigh of relief. She was there and she had me and my back and I fully trusted her to guide me.
We were also fortunate enough to hire her postpartum doulas! We had the pleasure of working with Veronica, Danielle and Bernadette. Everyone brought different outstanding qualities that were a total joy to experience. They went above and beyond to learn about our families needs and fit right in. I trusted all of them with my postpartum care, cooking meals, giving my husband a break and endless sibling entertainment for my bigger kids so I could snuggle in bed with our new baby. I felt so well supported my body was able to heal physically and I could emotionally take space when needed. There was always round the clock care and they were quick to fill our schedule when I quickly realized I needed more support than I had initially intended. I wish all mothers could experience this kind of care.
— dani p.
I used Moon Sage Mama doulas for postpartum support and was thrilled with their work! The doulas we worked with showed up on time and professionally to each shift. We had a combo of daytime and overnight support. We were able to get sleep and wake to a happy baby, straightened up living room, bottle and pump parts washed, and baby laundry cleaned. It was amazing! Day support I was able to ask questions about breastfeeding, be taken care of while I recovered from birth, and have someone who listened and understood how challenging postpartum can be. We will definitely hire again for our next baby!
— Maggie L.
Words cannot describe how thankful I am to have had Melissa as part of my birth story. When I met her, I immediately felt a comforting energy and someone who could guide me through having my first baby. She takes time to listen to you and understand your fears, anxieties, and how to reframe them. She also made my husband feel included and supported, which was very important to me. When she arrived at the hospital, it felt like a weight was lifted. I had back labor, which was very painful. I wanted to have a low-intervention birth, and Melissa helped me stay focused to give time for my baby to turn. She immediately took action and provided a comforting, maternal presence to help me through the contractions and get my baby to turn in the right direction. Also, she is so professional when working with nurses and the midwifery team. She made sure my voice was heard and that everyone was on the same page. We could not imagine what our journey would be like without Melissa's support. Thank you for helping me achieve my birth plan and welcome our baby boy into the world.
— A Lagorio
After a traumatic first birth, I knew I wanted more support for my second pregnancy and labor—someone who could provide consistency, knowledge, and reassurance throughout the entire process. From the beginning, my doula was exactly that. She was a steady, grounding presence for both me and my husband, offering invaluable resources, hands-on training, and emotional support that helped us feel confident going into birth.
She was not only incredibly knowledgeable about birth but also trauma-informed, which made all the difference. She helped me recognize potential triggers and gave me tools to stay grounded when I felt like I had no control. She understood the deep connection between mind and body, ensuring I felt safe and supported every step of the way.
During labor, she brought essential oils, provided counter-pressure, and helped me work through both physical discomfort and the mental blocks I faced. She was instrumental in helping us navigate decisions, and I remember feeling so much peace knowing that we made the best choices for our birth—even when those choices differed from what I had originally planned. She empowered me to trust myself and reminded me that the answers I needed were inside me the whole time.
She also worked seamlessly with my husband, ensuring he felt confident in his role and that we were truly supported as a team. And beyond birth, she was just as invaluable—helping me debrief and process my experience postpartum, gently guiding me to recognize areas of inner work that I needed to explore.
She was stability in birth. She never took over, but she made sure I always felt in charge, educated, and empowered in every decision. I cannot recommend her enough—if you’re looking for a doula who brings knowledge, compassion, and unwavering support, she is the one.
— Liz Hopkins
My husband and I talked about working with a doula early in my pregnancy. I wanted a support person for an unmedicated birth and he had read about research showing that working with doulas can help prevent unnecessary medical intervention during labor. After one phone call with Melissa we knew that we wanted her on our team. She is an empathetic listener who affirms the emotions, difficulties, and joys of birth. She promotes making decisions based on evidenced based studies. While my pregnancy was very straightforward the labor was more complicated. When my baby was a week late the medical practice pushed for an induction. Melissa talked through it with me and pointed me in the direction of studies that could help me make my decision. Her supportive guidance continued throughout the rest of my birth. I ended up getting an epidural due to strong pitocin contractions & then a c-section after many hours of active labor & pushing. Although the labor didn't go as I had envisioned she made me feel empowered to make the best decision for my baby and me. At a critical moment when I was scared going into the c-section she helped ground me by reminding me that the risks were minimal and the doctor was an expert surgeon. I can't express enough how important and necessary it was for me to hear this. What could have been a very traumatic birth experience was one where I felt like I was empowered to cultivate the experience I wanted within the realities of the birth was progressing. Her twinkle & mood lights, essential oils, and assistance finding good positions after the epidural furter helped to create a special birth experience. I cannot recommend her enough.
— Catriona
Melissa, Moon Sage Mama, was absolutely amazing during my birth experience. The prenatal meetings helped me to get mentally ready for what was to come during birth, as this was my first child. Melissa listened to what I wanted for my birth experience and offered suggestions and ideas to help me prepare. At the actual birth, I was unexpectedly induced and we didnt think I would have the baby until the next day, fast forward to 2am and I was already 9cm. My husband called Melissa and she was there in the room with me setting the mood and keeping me grounded within 20 minutes. She was holding my hand, updating the essential oils from relaxing to energizing, holding my leg, keeping my husband calm, cool cloths, and the list goes on. When the baby was born she needed to be immediately cared for by the nurses, so my husband was with the baby and Melissa continued to stay with me and keep me updated on my baby's progress, including taking pictures of our new family. I am so glad we worked with Melissa and I will 100% invite Melissa back when I have my second baby!
— Kiersten
When I was looking for a doula to support my plan for an unmedicated birth at a birth center, I was hoping for someone who would help me feel at ease and Melissa was the best person for the job!
She is knowledgeable in trauma informed care, and sensitive to anxieties and other less than ideal feelings that may be present during your prenatal prep as well as during labor. With her help and guidance I was able to feel more empowered and to work through my mental state in order to be strong enough to feel like I could handle my labor. During labor, she was a constant calming presence, and with her there holding my hand and reminding me to breathe deeply during the intensity, I was able to come down from times during the birth when I was feeling like it was getting to be too much and I couldn't do it. We had our healthy baby girl and having Melissa there was so vital in keeping me going through the hard parts of the birth. I'm so glad Melissa was there and I recommend her wholeheartedly to anyone who is thinking about having a doula at their birth <3 Thank you again Melissa!
— Jes Erickson
I was seeking a cheerleader who could help guide me through an unmedicated birth for my 4th baby, as I had been unsuccessful in making it through with my first 3 babies. Melissa made me feel so empowered leading up to the birth, offered so many training techniques so that I could be prepared, and guided me through the entire process once labor started. She put me and my husband at ease and truly was our coach through a beautiful, natural, unmedicated birth. When the going got tough, having Melissa by my side was truly the GAME-CHANGER! She is an amazing hero!
— Lauren
I hired Melissa for my 2nd pregnancy. After a traumatic labor and delivery with my 1st son, I knew I wanted to hire a doula who would help me feel empowered, informed, advocate for me, and help me physically, mentally and emotionally throughout my pregnancy and during labor and delivery. Melissa did exactly that. She was always open and available to my questions throughout my pregnancy, she helped me communicate with my OB/GYN about risks and benefits of the VBAC that I wanted to achieve, and she was a constant support during labor and delivery. Melissa's knowledge of the birthing process and how to help women during that process is extensive, and she applied that knowledge to truly help and care for me during my labor and delivery. Melissa by far exceeded my expectations and is a true angel and gift to those who hire her. She is worth her weight in gold!! Thank you Melissa for everything!
— Katie Domizio
I cannot find the right words to explain just how enhanced my birthing experience was with Melissa. Our pre-meetings helped ease my anxieties, we talked through a ton of different scenarios for my birth and how I would want to handle them. Having all those decisions pre-made was such a relief. But as anyone who has given birth knows, the best laid plans.....and of course, it got really hard and I got very scared and Melissa was right there alongside my partner walking me through every moment until I was calm again. She made the experience worth remembering and not one that I want to pack away and forget never happened. I am able to look back at my birth story now with love and joy and a strong feeling of gratitude. In the birthing room, we laughed together, we cried together, we did informal group therapy together to heal each other (and our nurse!), and that is an experience I wouldn't trade for the world.
— Cait Versella
I worked with Melissa for my second baby and it made all the difference! If I could only keep one part of that birth, it would be hiring her again. If there was anything I could change for my first birth, it would be to have her there. I found Melissa because of her specialty in trauma and working with anxiety. I wanted someone who could understand and validate that I had worries about my birth based on past experiences and help me work through them and create a different outcome. When I gave birth, the outside circumstances of my second ended up looking a lot like my first, but because Melissa was there, it was TOTALLY different. I was more resilient, I felt safer, I trusted myself more, and my husband had this incredible support. He was blown away by her and we both attribute our positive memories to her, hands down! We cannot believe we were so lucky to have her in the face of unexpected circumstances.
Having Melissa with me through my pregnancy made a huge difference. During our prenatal sessions, I felt like I was really honoring my pregnancy and this new baby. Getting together was like having a best friend and a mentor and a guide all at the same time. They were these rich hours together that are precious memories from my pregnancy. During my birth, she knew exactly how to support me throughout the experience. Her ability to alleviate discomfort through counter pressure was truly amazing and made her support worth every penny!! It eliminated my need for an epidural, even though I was being induced with a high level of Pitocin, and she helped me labor using relaxations, a birthing ball and her hands on support.
As a birth instructor myself, I often recommend Melissa because, by now, she has worked with so many of my moms and their births are always incredible. Whatever the birth setting, she creates a really safe container. She has SO much experience and she's just a kind, loving person. I can't recommend Melissa enough!
— Nora Wright
Where do I even start? Melissa was everything I needed to go from anxiety and panic about my impending birth after a traumatic experience with my first birth, to feeling prepared, excited, and even hopeful. During our two virtual sessions leading up to the birth, she let me share my previous birth story and helped me unpack exactly what happened and what I was actually afraid of. I was not expecting her to be such an incredible help with my mental state for the few months prior to the birth in addition to being physically present for the actual event. I can honestly say that Melissa is the reason I arrived at my birth place smiling, present, and ready for whatever happened. The birth happened so fast that Melissa was only actually with me for about 3-4 hours, but knowing she was there and in my corner made a big difference nonetheless. I had hired a doula the first time as well, but did not feel that support and care that everyone talks about. THIS was that care. Melissa, thank you so much for everything you did for me and my partner! I can't say enough good things about working with you.
— Danielle R
I feel like divine timing is to thank for having Melissa be present at the birth of my daughter. I waited until my third trimester before deciding to hire a doula and it just so happened I found Melissa and she was available. From the moment I met her in person I knew she would be a wonderful presence to have on my birthing day. Her expertise, her gentle and calming presence, and her firm yet lovingly boundaried ways of engaging when it's time to make game-time decisions are the perfect blend of traits to have in the birthing room. One of my favorite moments from my birth is both of us looking at each other in total disbelief with happy relieved laughter after my daughter was born (almost with no one else in the room!) Melissa is truly a professional, gifted at what she does, and someone you want by your side at the most transformative time of your life!
— Molly
My experience with Melissa was wonderful! She attended my third birth and I couldn't have been happier having her there. During our prenatal meetings, she helped me and my husband mentally and emotionally prepare and I knew she was someone we could trust. During labor and birth, I felt her presence grounded me, through her calm and steady physical touch as well as her supportive and generous words of encouragement. She was so in tune with me, my partner, our baby, and our midwives. She knew just when to lean in and help and when to lean back and watch. Her steady, confident, reassuring presence was just what we needed. A few weeks after birth we met again to process the birth and her kind words will always stick with me. Melissa's knowledge as a doula, her dedication to us as a birthing family, and her generosity of spirit were all invaluable parts of our birth experience.
— Kelly Trese
