$500+flat rate · CALL ME SIS! Virtual Doula package
About Darshal
Hi there! My name is Darshal but you can call me Dee! I am a mom and experienced doula. I’m originally from Mississippi, and have a beautiful, blossoming teenage daughter! My journey into motherhood and the knowledge and empowerment gained through childbirth has led me to become a doula. I have a passion for helping women achieve a positive and satisfying childbirth experience. My goal as a doula is to help educate, advocate, offer support and comfort for all birthing persons during their fertility, pregnancy along with labor, ultimately leading to a positive birth and wellness experience.
Personalized list of resources at the request of the client
NOTE: This package does NOT include in-person Labor / Postpartum support
$700USD · Flat rate
BIRTHDAY!
So you've done this already and you just need a Doula...
In-person labor support up to 1 hour after delivery
24/7 phone and text support leading up to the Estimated Due Date (EDD)
On-call starting at 38 weeks
*Note: This package does not include prenatal sessions or services listed from other packages.
$1,500USD · Flat rate
DOULA THIS DOULA THAT
2 Prenatal sessions
Birth plan co-creation
Prenatal Nutrition Checklist
Labor Coaching and Techniques (Spinning Babies Techniques)
24/7 phone and text support leading up to the Estimated Due Date (EDD)
on call at 38 weeks
Labor and birth support up to birth 2 hours after delivery*
1 Follow-up reflection visit + newborn care (1hr)
1 Immediate Postpartum Day Shift (4 hours)*
$1,800USD · Flat rate
Doula Me Dee!
4 Prenatal sessions
Birth plan Co-creation
Prenatal Nutrition Checklist
Labor Coaching and Techniques (Spinning Babies Techniques)
24/7 phone and text support leading up to Estimated Due Date (EDD)
on call at 38 weeks
Labor and birth support up to birth 1 hour after delivery*
Unlimited Phone/Text/Email Support leading up to EDD
On-call starting at 38 weeks
$500USD · Flat rate
FLY DOULA
Doula services are offered for domestic travel. *Fee includes the cost of airfare, lodging, and per diem at the GSA government rate (per location), and supplies needed for services. Full payment must be made upon hire. All services will adhere to contract terms and agreements.
DOULA EXPRESS
STARTING AT $5000+ PLEASE READ BELOW
The client may add a birth doula package and additional services (if applicable) IN ADDITION to the travel doula fee listed. The package is for families who are 6+ hours away from the home base of practice. Dee The Doula will make arrangements to be in the area no later than 38 - 40 weeks before the estimated due date (EDD).
$5,000USD · Flat rate
End Of Life Doula
CIRCLE OF LIFE
Includes all services outlined in the Doula This Doula That Birth Support Package listed above
up to 5 hours of in-person labor support
Particular focus is on preparing you for what to expect as you birth your baby through the end of life
Physical and emotional support is provided during the loss and birth of your baby
Assistance will be provided in creating memories and keepsake items for your baby
Comfort Care Kit for the birthing person
$750USD · Flat rate
DEE-IOR BIRTH LUXURY PACKAGE
Everything in the Doula Me Dee Package Plus Placenta Encapsulation with 2 prints and a Tincture
$2,400USD · Flat rate
What to expect
A Doula’s role is to provide physical, emotional and informational support to the mother and her family before, during and after childbirth. There are many proven physiological and psychological benefits that come into effect when a birthing mother feels safe, relaxed, informed and supported. Doulas are specially trained in the birth process and know just how to help make this happen.
Please visit www.deethedoula.com to discuss packages and schedule your consultation!
Reviews for Darshal Smith
5.07 reviews
5.0
Dee the Doula (Darshal) is simply phenomenal!
From the moment we connected, Dee brought such warmth, professionalism, and genuine care to every conversation. She is not only a certified birth & postpartum doula but also a student midwife with an incredible depth of knowledge about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum recovery.
Her approach is the perfect balance of evidence-based guidance and heartfelt emotional support. She listened to my needs, respected my preferences, and made me feel empowered every step of the way. Whether it was helping me create a birth plan, offering comfort measures during labor, or ensuring I had the resources I needed at home postpartum, Dee went above and beyond.
Even during times when she was navigating her own personal life challenges and may not have been quite as sharp for a few moments as she’s usually 110% of the time, she still showed up fully for me and my family. We gave her space to process because what good would she be to us if she wasn’t replenished? That mutual respect only strengthened our bond, and I can truly call her family and for that, I’m deeply grateful.
It’s clear that this is more than just a job for her, it’s her calling. She treats her clients like family and creates a safe, uplifting environment for both parents and baby. If you’re looking for someone who will advocate for you, educate you, and hold space for you through one of the most important times in your life, I can’t recommend Dee the Doula enough!
As we grow our family, she will ALWAYS be our go to doula! I can’t wait to see her in action one day as a midwife!
— Michelle T.
5.0
Darshal exceeded all of my expectations as my doula for my first child. She eased my anxiety, advocated for me throughout my pregnancy, labor and delivery with my doctors. Her passion mixed with her experience leaves you feeling safe that you're in great hands. I recommend her services to all expecting moms.
— Tierra W.
5.0
Dee was amazing!! She is knowledgeable & informative. Dee was extremely helpful to me during my pregnancy, especially during my postpartum period when I wasn’t feeling my best. My entire family loved her!!
— Angela J.
5.0
Dee is amazing! She was very punctual and thorough in her services and did everything with genuine love and care. She is a 10/10 and so will be recommending her to all of my friends and family!
— Mariah I.
5.0
Dee is the ideal doula to have! Her prenatal sessions are informative and educational and she ensures you’re prepared for birth. At the hospital she’s there for you every step until birth and postpartum. I was very happy with her services and would refer her to any woman going on the journey to motherhood!
— Nickita B.
5.0
I hired Dee for the birth of my son, which was also my first time giving birth. She was phenomenal from start to finish. I ended up having to be induced and I was worried that would lead to a c-section, but I was still able to have a vaginal birth. Dee is a great advocate and is also firm in letting you make whatever you think is the best choice for yourself. I would definitely recommend her services.
— Cidney F.
5.0
I hired Darshal as my doula for my first pregnancy and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. She provided me with prenatal services that prepared my partner and I for my labor and delivery.
She also attended my birth and I literally may not have survived without her guidance and support. She was on top of things (even when the doctors and nurses were not). There wasn’t a detail that Darshal didn’t already think of as she supported me through a difficult 19 hour labor with complications. She also coached and empowered my partner throughout the process which allowed him to really be present.
I also utilized Darshal’s postnatal services and she played an integral role in helping my family adjust to life at home with a newborn. I had a wonderful experience with Darshal and I strongly recommend her services if you want a doula that you can trust and who will go above and beyond expectations.
— Gabrielle G.
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Certifications, training, and specialties
Certification and training
Birth Doula Certification, National Black Doula Association (2020)
Postpartum doulas work with you during those first moments at home, typically ranging from a couple weeks to 1- 2 months. Postpartum doulas provide unbiased, evidence-based information and create a safe space for you to feel comfortable and cared for. You will receive assistance with newborn care, light household tidying (pertaining to newborn), lactation assistance, assistance with meal preparation, newborn laundry, and healing and recovery! Postpartum doulas provide critical support during the often overlooked "fourth trimester."
A postpartum doula is NOT a maid service, baby sitter, or partner replacement.
WHAT TYPES OF BIRTHS DO DOULAS SUPPORT?
Whether you want to give birth at home or by scheduled cesarean, birth doulas support ALL kinds of labor. Many people imagine doulas supporting home births or think doulas are only for "holistic" families. While that may be a stereotype for doulas, a large majority of doulas can be found in hospitals and birth centers. Some doulas have "specialties" or certain styles that they bring to the table, meaning they might be a better fit for your idea for your birth. Experience and additional training do come into play here. Doulas support any birth, from midwife-supported home births to birth center births, unmedicated hospital births, and scheduled cesarean deliveries.
WHEN SHOULD I HIRE A DOULA?
The earlier, the better! Typically, the beginning of your third trimester is a good time to have your doula secured by. I often recommend starting your search in your second trimester, talking to and interviewing a couple of doulas, and determining who is the best fit for you. You deserve someone you feel an easy connection with and who you think fits your personality and needs.
*If you consider yourself a planner or someone who experiences anxiety more often, hiring a doula earlier in your pregnancy might be more beneficial. This allows you to form that trusting relationship and feel unconditionally supported as you navigate the emotional and mental ups and downs.
HOW DOES A DOULA WORK WITH MY PARTNER?
I get a common question: "Will, my partner, feel left out?" Honestly, this is a very valid question. Many think that a doula takes the role of the partner when, in fact, our position supports them as well. I firmly believe that my role as your doula is to amplify support for your partner. I have worked with many different birthing partners, yet they all have one thing in common: Your partner knows you better than anyone else. They know your fears, preferences, and desires even if they aren't sure how to support you in labor/birth. I work with your partner by encouraging them, offering guidance and suggestions, reminding them to stay hydrated and take bathroom breaks, and more. If your partner has witnessed a birth before, they still deserve support and the comfort of knowing they are supported.
If the "happy hormone" was a person - consider it secured with your partner!
WILL A DOULA BE USEFUL IF I NEED MEDICATION OR IF I HAVE A CESAREAN?
Absolutely! As mentioned in an earlier question, doulas support all types of birth. While you may not request much physical support, there are emotional and informational ways your doula can help you.
A doula can benefit you and your partner if:
You would like pain medication early on in your labor (or perhaps on the way to the hospital)
You plan to use an IV narcotic or an epidural
You have a cesarean birth, whether it is unplanned or scheduled
A doula can help you find a groove, stay informed, and ensure that you are cared for emotionally and mentally. Some pain medications take the edge off (like nitrous oxide), while others may be more effective in removing the sharpness (like an epidural). Sometimes there is still a need for other coping techniques, such as counterpressure, that we may need to utilize. Having a doula can reassure you that you have more tools at your fingertips. Perhaps you feel you are coping well with labor discomfort- extraordinary! A doula can ensure that you and your partner's emotions are supported and that you continue to receive any information you would like. The physical support piece does not entirely go away; you and your doula still have things like massage or positioning as options.
At cesarean births, whether they are planned or not, doulas are helpful to help with cesarean birth preparedness, balancing emotions and thoughts, and keeping you informed of the options you still have in the operating room.
HOW DO I FIND THE RIGHT DOULA FOR ME?
You deserve the best! Each doula is unique, and a few things come into play.
Trust your gut. Do the doula's personality and style fit you and your partner? Do you vibe well with the doula? If a doula rubs you the wrong way, uses specific verbiage or language you don't like, puts off a vibe that doesn't sit well with you, or even has the same name as a crazy ex whose name alone drives you crazy, they may not be the doula for you. Honestly, even the simplest thing you try to ignore can amplify over time or on your "birthday."
Determine what it is that you're looking for. Do you have specific preferences or wishes regarding pregnancy and birth? Are you planning on using a specific birthing method or other tools? Finding a doula who can unconditionally support you and may have experience with the things you plan for can make all the difference. Doulas often acquire additional training and certifications to provide you with a more well-balanced, well-rounded approach to doula support. What other knowledge would you want your doula to have (i.e., acupressure, aromatherapy, belly casting, childbirth/lactation education, massage, optimal fetal positioning, photography, placenta encapsulation, etc.)?
Interview more than one doula. As doulas, we know how important it is for a client-doula relationship to feel connected and trusting. That is why we believe that by researching and considering more than one doula, you will open doors to your choices. An internet search or searching National Black Doula Association and DoulaMatch may help.
When the connection feels right, go for it; after the logistics like availability and pricing, move forward if you feel ready to add this person to your birth team.
Be mindful that the same applies to Doula's in their discernment if a client would also be a great fit!
Gem: If you connect well with more than one doula, consider hiring one as primary and asking the other doula to be the backup doula in the unlikely event that your primary doula cannot attend your birth. A certified, professional doula is taught to acquire a backup doula. Ask if your hired doula works with specific backup doulas or is open to suggestions/guidance from you.
WHAT DOES SCHEDULING LOOK LIKE WITH A POSTPARTUM DOULA?
The work, you and your postpartum doula, can do together looks different than someone else's work with them. Each family's needs are unique. Therefore, your experience and schedule with your postpartum doula will be unique and individualized to fit you and your needs. Depending on the doula and their availability, you may have them do a day or night shifts, ranging anywhere from 2 hours long to 8 hours long. Some doulas even will do longer if needed! You can choose to have your doula with you once or several days a week; again, it's entirely between you and your doula. For example, I have done three 5-hour day shifts a week with one family and two 4-hour evening shifts a week with another family. It all depends on your needs, your doula's availability and offerings, and when you need support.
HOW SOON SHOULD I HIRE A POSTPARTUM DOULA?
This depends on you and how you are anticipating your postpartum needs will be met. Some families hire a postpartum doula while they are still pregnant. Maybe a previous experience has encouraged them to secure a postpartum doula early on. Other families start their postpartum journey on their own and then recognize that they would benefit from a doula or wanted to wait to see if they would require the support. The timing of when you hire a postpartum doula is completely up to you! Even if you do not hire one ahead of time, researching and knowing your options while pregnant can be helpful for when you end up searching for one after you give birth.
DO YOU SUPPORT FAMILIES WITH PETS?
While I am an animal lover and have a “grand dog”, it is imperative that all pets be up-to-date on vaccinations and show proof of vaccinations submitted at the time of contract signing. I kindly ask that all pets be secured in an area until the scheduled session is over. Dee The Doula Maternal & Holistic Wellness Services, LLC, reserves the right to cancel sessions, or terminate services for aggressive animals, those with a history of nipping, excessive jumping, scratching, biting, excessive mounting behavior (dry humping), or pets whose vaccinations are not current. Additionally, it is imperative your pet has the proper grooming (i.e. bathing, clipped nails, dander and fece causing odor, bodily fluids, excessive hair shedding) to limit and prevent injuries, and the transporting of allergens to households and other families. This is for the safety of the doula and for the safety of the other families I care for who may have pet allergies.
Do you accept insurance?
Other forms of payment include, CashApp, Zelle, ApplePay, Sqaure, FSA/HSA, and AfterPay! Additionally, payment plans are available on a case-by-case basis. *AfterPay up to $2,000. User agrees to AfterPay terms and agreements in addition to Dee The Doula Maternal & Holistic Wellness Services, LLC terms and agreements.
WHAT IS A DOULA?
A doula provides emotional and physical support, resources, and preparation to an expecting family prenatally, during birth, and shortly after. The more common types of doulas are: birth, postpartum, fertility, and bereavement.
WHAT DOES A BIRTH DOULA DO?
Birth doulas meet with you during the perinatal period to offer support throughout your labor and birth. Additionally, they are there for you as you transition into your postpartum chapter.
Some things that are included in doula work: prenatal visits, telephone/email support, on-call availability, continuity of care, assistance and support during labor and birth, assistance with optimal fetal positioning (which can be discussed prenatally and utilized during the birth process), aromatherapy, massage, breastfeeding support, resources and much more.
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DOULA AND A MIDWIFE?
A doula is non-medical support who focuses on caring for you emotionally and physically and helps you feel informed and empowered. While they often have similar approaches, a midwife differs from a doula hugely.
A midwife is a *medical* professional, meaning that the primary focus of their care is on the health and safety of you and your baby. Both doulas and midwives work with you prenatally, support you throughout the birth and follow up with you postpartum. At birth, doulas often do comfort measure techniques, providing a calm birth space as much as possible, providing guidance and reassurance (to you and your partner), and repeat affirmations that empower you. At birth, midwives may be found doing similar things to a doula. Still, their top priorities include: ensuring that you and your baby's vital signs are stable, assessing you and your baby, completing cervical exams when needed, administering medication if necessary, and catching the baby you are birthing.
Doulas and midwives are a perfect pair!
Doulas are NOT bodyguards or family mediators!
How much does Darshal charge?
Darshal's CALL ME SIS! Virtual Doula package is $500 USD, flat rate. Darshal lists 8 packages in all.
