I’m so grateful we had Paty as our doula. She gave me the tools and guidance to feel prepared for birth, and when the time came, she was right by my side through all of it. What meant the most to me was that Paty gave me space to make my own decisions. I had hoped for a natural birth, but when things didn’t go as planned, she supported me as I adjusted my plan. I never felt judged or alone. I’ve heard so many women describe birth as traumatic, and I truly think mine could have felt that way without her. Instead, I look back on my delivery and smile through tears. The lights were low, a playlist my husband and I had listened to throughout my pregnancy was playing, and between pushes we were talking and laughing. Paty helped create the calm that made those moments possible. I was able to remember my breathing and push the way I had practiced. I also didn’t tear, which had been one of my biggest fears. Her care didn’t end when our son was born. Paty has helped us through three overnights, and with no family nearby, that support has meant the world to us. If you’re considering a doula for your birth, I wholeheartedly recommend Paty. I’ll always be grateful for the part she played in bringing our son into the world.
— Sydney Martinez